Kerry Washington, the powerhouse actress known for her roles in Scandal and Little Fires Everywhere, has always kept her personal life on the down-low. But when it comes to her marriage with former NFL player and actor Nnamdi Asomugha, there's a story that begs to be told. The couple tied the knot in an intimate ceremony in Idaho in 2013, but for seven years, they've expertly kept the details of their relationship under wraps.
Ahead, we delve into the life and career of Nnamdi Asomugha, his romantic journey with Washington, and how their family is navigating these unpredictable times.
Born in Lafayette, Louisiana, and raised in Los Angeles with roots in Nigeria, Asomugha's early life was a blend of cultures. His football career took off at the University of California, Berkeley, leading to a first-round pick by the Oakland Raiders in the 2003 NFL Draft. After a successful run with the Raiders, Eagles, and 49ers, Asomugha retired in 2013. Yet, his connection to the sport remains strong.
“It’s the ultimate team sport, so you have no choice but to feel like family, and that never leaves you,” he shared, reminiscing about his NFL days.
But Asomugha wasn’t ready to settle down just yet. He pivoted to acting, landing a role in Friday Night Lights and eventually producing the acclaimed Beasts of No Nation. His recent projects include the Harriet Tubman biopic, Harriet, and a Broadway debut in A Soldier's Play.
Asomugha's acting endeavors played a pivotal role in his personal life. He met Washington while she was starring in the play Race on Broadway in 2009. "The last time I did theater, it completely transformed my life. That’s where I met my husband," Washington confessed, highlighting the intersection of their professional paths.
Their love story, though discreet, is a blend of "first sight" chemistry and a "slow burn" that has kept them strong for over a decade. "That immediate connection paired with a slow burn keeps you going," Washington noted, celebrating their ten-year marriage milestone.
Together, Asomugha and Washington are parents to two children—Isabelle and Caleb—and are also raising Asomugha's daughter from a previous relationship. During a recent interview, Washington touched on family life during challenging times. "We’re all navigating the pandemics of COVID-19 and systemic racism. It’s a lot to manage," she said, underscoring the challenges of parenting under pressure.
Beyond family, Asomugha dedicates time to philanthropy. The Asomugha Foundation supports Nigerian widows and orphans, while his ACTS program mentors students across the U.S. His efforts have earned him multiple accolades, showcasing a commitment to making a difference.
Despite industry pressures, Washington and Asomugha maintain a strictly private relationship. "I have girlfriends who share their personal lives, but not me," Washington revealed. "I've learned it doesn’t work for me to talk about my personal life."
Their recent appearances at high-profile events like the LACMA Gala and Milan's Prada show prove they can keep a low profile while enjoying the spotlight. Whether co-producing a project or supporting each other's ventures, this couple is a testament to balancing love and fame.
As they continue their journey, one can only hope for more collaborations, both on and off the screen.